Every night at bedtime is special with both our girls. I love snuggling Vivi until she nods off to sleep and bedtime is when Emma Jane finally becomes a snuggler at the end of a long snuggle-free day. Our routine with Emma Jane has been the same since she was a small baby. Paul bathes her, dresses her in her pjs, and gives her a little quiet (ha!) playtime in her room. When I come in to take over, Emma Jane and I read a few books together, say prayers, and snuggle for a few minutes before I leave the room. Recently our snuggle time has also become chat time. Emma Jane will say, "Mama, I have somepin I want to talk to you 'bout." Every night we talk about something different and it leads to a long string of disconnected (or are they?) Emma Jane thoughts. This is how our conversation went tonight. Please forgive the lengthy dialogue, but I wanted to record at least one of these conversations while it's still fresh in my mind. Times like these are just too precious to forget.
EJ: Mama, why do we have dinner?
Me: Well, so our bodies can be healthy and strong. That's why we eat all of our meals and make sure we have servings of fruits and vegetables.
EJ: But I don't wike vegetables.
Me: Well, it's important to eat them.
EJ: But why?
Me: So you can run fast and jump high and have plenty of energy all day long.
EJ: Mama, why do we go to school?
(Notice the whys have begun to take over our child!)
Me: So we can learn new things like how to read, how to write, and how to share with our friends.
EJ: Mama, I wike your eyebwows. You have bootiful eyes. Are your eyes bwown?
Me: Yes, my eyes are brown just like yours.
EJ: But my eyes turn green when I cry. Why do they turn green?
Me: I'm not sure...
EJ: Mama, open your mouth and say Ahhhh!
Me: Why?
EJ: I need to check to see if your teef are white. Have you been eating sweeties?
Me: I guess I better go brush my teeth. (As much as I love this conversation, I do have to leave at some point and this is the perfect way to exit.)
EJ: No, mommy, I want you to stay and snuggle for just
one,
two, free mo minutes.
Me: Can you lay here quietly with me while we snuggle?
EJ: No, 'cause I have somepin very impotant we need to talk 'bout.
....and so it continues...every night...and I wouldn't have it any other way!